Showing posts with label Family Visit. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Visit. Show all posts

Thursday, August 22, 2019

Family Reunions


Gold Beach fishing clan (Andy, Jana, Lauren, Ini, Scott, Josh, Gloria)
This year was our third shared vacation in Gold Beach, Oregon with Scott and his family. This time we were joined by Jandy (Jana and Andy) and Lauren for the July 4th week. Scott chartered a fishing boat for two of the days, although Verne and I opted to skip fishing and entertain ourselves as a 5 a.m. departure time was not appealing and spending six hours on the ocean held even less attraction. Especially after our ocean experience in Hawaii last year when Verne swore off boating and I’ve got to stand by my man. Actually, I’m no keener on boating and motion sickness than Verne so it’s easy to stand by him and skip that part of the family vacation.

Scott started the girls fishing at an early age. When he lived in Ione he had a small aluminum boat and would take the girls fishing for trout and bass at Lake Amador. Other times they kept it even more local and would walk to our neighbors pond and fish, often fighting off a pair of snapping turtles who thought it was funny to snap fishing line. When the girls were older the threesome made several trips to La Paz, Mexico to ocean fish for dorado and the occasional marlin. According to Scott some of the best fishing on the West coast is in Gold Beach where the Rogue River joins the ocean. It certainly proved true on this trip.

Scott and the girls in La Paz, Mexico
According to Lauren:

Scott’s First Rule of Fishing: No talking – silence is golden.

I’m fairly certain I broke this rule every five minutes when I was a kid. Whenever Scott was home from his day job (fishing, incidentally) he would take his baby sisters fishing anywhere that was handy – Lake Amador, our local pond, a lake up in the Sierras, etc. Being a bit of a chatterbox, I naturally found Rule 1 impossibly challenging. This perhaps explains why some of my earliest fishing memories are of Jana and myself being told to walk the proverbially plank, to stay there and swim for a while, and then watching the back end of the boat disappear as Scott drove some distance away from our noise. Oh well! Swimming is, after all, half the point of fishing.

Since that time Jana and I have been avid fisherwomen, always willing to go on a fishing adventure and feel the exhilaration that only comes from battling nature for dinner. When Scott suggested two days of fishing in Gold Beach, Jana and I eagerly accepted. We’ve gotten a bit better at adhering to Rule 1 (particularly with a 5 am call time to the dock, which often sees us half asleep when the day begins), a lucky fact for everyone as no one with sense wants an impromptu swim in the cold waters of the Pacific Northwest.

Gold Beach fishing is absolutely amazing. We had great weather, which left us with mostly calm seas on Day 1 and only minor swells on Day 2. For the most part our group avoided sea sickness, though there were a couple upset stomachs on the second morning. The true beauty of fishing though lies in the titles you can receive. And there are a lot of them: Biggest Fish, Smallest Fish, Most Fish Caught, Weirdest Species Caught, Most Species Caught, Strangest Way to Hook a Fish, Laziest Way to Fish, Most Times Hooking the Bottom, etc. And each achievement deserves celebration (whoops, there goes Rule 1). A day of fishing is never complete without a bit of sleepiness, snacks, some cursing, a bit of grumbling, and plenty of laughter.

We caught our quotas both days and came home with many types of rockfish, lingcod, and crabs from several crab pots we put out first thing in the morning and collected on our way back to the dock at the end of the day. We actually caught more than we brought home, largely due to catching quite a few Yellow-eye Rockfish, which are protected and must be thrown back. The end of each day is spent watching the boat crew clean and filet our catch (the best way to clean a fish is to have someone else do it for you), which we will eat over the next year. With only a 1-year supply caught, I suppose that means we’ll be heading out again next summer. I can’t wait!

Jana, "Laziest Way to Fish" 
Lauren, "Biggest Fish" 
Verne and I were prompted by our tree-hugging youngest daughter to take a hike through the redwoods. The closest redwoods were about 45 minutes from Gold Beach near Brookings in the Rogue River-Siskiyou National Forest. The 1.2 mile nature trail hike satisfied Lauren and was just enough without overdoing it for two old farts like us. The trees there are considered small to medium, although as we walked up the hill there were a few very large trees. One that was hollowed at the base was perfect for a family picture, but sadly nobody to take it. Lauren parked us inside the tree, took far too long to set up her camera on a timer, ran down a short hill laughing and jumped into the photo just in the nick of time.

Tree Hugger  
Family Selfie
Our last evening was appropriately spent watching fireworks in the little town of Gold Beach. Scott asked around and was told the best spot to watch was by the dock where he had chartered the fishing boat each day. I think the entire town of about 2,000 residents turned out for the event. There were a number of small but impressive private displays along the river bank leading up to the hour-long main event, which was sponsored by the town of Gold Beach. All of the fireworks were exploded over the river providing a magical setting of colorful bursts of light overhead glowing and reflecting in the water with a background of oohs and ahhs from the spectators. It was magical!

We enjoyed a second family reunion last month in Carson City, Nevada. Why Nevada when the Moser kids were born and raised in the Washington/Idaho area? Andre Moser (son of the oldest Moser brother, Bob) confirmed my suspicions with a smile and a wink that as one of the three organizers of the event he chose the location for its convenience to his home in Dayton. Actually, with family traveling from all of the Western states, Northern Nevada was an excellent choice. The reunion was predominantly attended by three generations of Mosers, with the top tier being the children of Ray and Clara Moser (Bob, Bill, Verne, Keith and sister Susie) and son of Ray and Clara, Terry. I have always found it interesting that Verne’s dad divorced his mother, Clara, to marry another woman named Clara. Verne has often referred to Clara-1 and Clara-2 and Terry Moser refers to himself as “brother with a different mother”. Cute! Over the years I’ve met most of the second generation kids with my closest relationship being with Susan Moser, Bill’s first daughter and the oldest of the second generation. We were especially close during the ten years I hosted quilting retreats as she’s a quilter. It was during that time that she met her significant other, Victor, and she adopted her daughter, Sophie, who is now 12 years old. Special memories!

Bob, Bill, Verne, Keith, Terry (brother with a different mother), and Susie
Moser daughters 
Jandy
After that weekend I realized a reunion is not as much for the top tier (fast approaching 80 years old with the same old stories), but for the next generation and for making and keeping connections with family. Jana made a surprising connection with Bob Moser, spending over an hour being fascinated by his stories of growing up during the depression and the hardships Clara endured raising four little boys (each 15 months apart in age) with a mostly absentee husband. They parted with promises to stay in touch and Jana agreeing to help with a genealogy project. Lauren connected with cousins and is now part of the planning committee for the next Moser Family Reunion in 2022. I connected with Terry’s youngest daughter, who I hadn’t seen in over 20 years. She has a son starting college this month and an 18-month old daughter. We shared our thoughts on motherhood in your teens versus your 40s. Something we’ve both experienced and have similar thoughts. We’re now Facebook friends and I’m enjoying her frequent posts of her college son and toddler daughter. I’ll be thinking about her son, Hunter, when we pass through Ashland on our way to see Lauren in Portland this month. Whether it’s family through blood or family through friendship, staying connected is a good thing!

A few more pics...
Verne in 1st grade, 1948
Keith, Bill, Susie, Bob, and Verne, 1948
Clara, Verne, Bob, Bill, Ray holding Keith, around 1943




Monday, August 22, 2016

McKenzie Family Visit

The Property, the Ponderosa, the Farm…all names for our home in Volcano, it just depends on who you talk to. From 1992 when we bought our 40 acres in the Sierra foothills just outside of the little town of Volcano, Verne and I have referred to it as the Property. Not sure why, but it just seemed to fit. At some point Scott started calling it the Ponderosa, probably in reference to the old TV series Bonanza about the adventures of the Cartwright family or it could be because we live on Ponderosa Trail, just off of Ponderosa Way (there are a lot of Ponderosa’s in Amador County). Jeff and his family refer to it as the Farm. That could be because we have always raised animals of some kind. We are down to two donkeys, a field full of cattle (owned by our neighbor), and about 35-40 chickens. When the girls were at home and active in 4H we had ducks, geese, chickens, rabbits, pigs, cattle and sheep. Jeff, Trish, and at that point their two boys, Parker and baby Peyton, actually lived in the cabin (now the Studio) for about six months as they transitioned from living in San Francisco to El Dorado Hills. We have a favorite story we tell about Parker. He was about 3 years old and very much like his parents…he didn’t like to get dirty. I wanted a picture of him holding one of our newborn lambs so we posed him sitting on a rock and I placed the lamb in his arms. Parker didn’t like the way the lamb smelled and he said, “It’s di-sgusting!” with great emphasis on the “di”.  Cute. To this day if we find something unpleasant, we say it is DI-SGUSTING and smile at the memory of Parker and the lamb.

We’ve been talking about selling the Property and downsizing for a few years now. Actually, according to Lauren we’ve had a two-year plan to downsize for over ten years now and our kids have come to consider our talk of selling an empty threat. That is, all but Jeff. My talk of having met with a realtor a few months ago got his attention and he decided to bring his family for one last visit to the Farm. If I’d known talking to a realtor would result in a visit from the McKenzies, who now reside clear across the United States in Newtown, Connecticut, I would have done it sooner.


Verne and I decided the highlight of their short visit with us would be an afternoon spent working on the ‘50 Chevy pickup that will eventually be theirs. Our hope was that by spending a little time “working” on the pickup, the boys might bond with it (in an abstract sort of way). I’ll be honest here…this was really not Verne’s idea and he thought it was a bad one. He couldn’t believe the kids would want to spend time in his dirty old barn working on a dirty old pickup, a pile of rusty metal. When I heard that they’d spent their first day in NorCal rafting on the American River, I had to agree with him. But it was too late to come up with a better idea.

Let me give you a short history of the pickup. Much of Verne’s (and his brother Keith’s) early life was spent on a farm in Washington. At a very early age the two boys learned to drive the very ‘50 Chevy pickup that sits (in pieces) in our barn. Verne figures he was about 10 when he started driving and Keith a few years younger. Before Verne and I moved to NorCal and later to the Property, he got the pickup and had hopes of restoring it to its original condition. It became a project that he occasionally worked on with Jeff. They didn’t get far with it, but I do have pictures of the two of them power washing and later sanding the truck to ready it for primer and paint. These apparently were happy memories, because Jeff feels a certain connection to the pickup and a couple of years ago told me that he’d like to have it. This was great news because for the past several years we’ve been in “get rid of all the old cars” mode (part of the downsizing plan). Here’s the problem…it has to be drivable to be shipped or transported the 3,000 miles from Volcano, CA to Newtown, CT. It is far from being drivable. In fact, when Verne most recently started this project again, it was literally scattered all over the barn, inside and out. It seemed impossible, but he has worked on gathering all the pieces and is gradually putting it back together. Impressive.

When we walked down to the barn with the McKenzies in tow the plan was to make the pickup movable (by putting on the wheels and tires) and push it outside to be power washed (a perfect job for three boys on a hot day). Verne approached the project just as he had with 15-year old Jeff all those years ago. He put the kids to work by having each of them put a tire on the pickup and tighten the lug nuts. After that, he had them raise the hydraulic jack and remove the floor jacks from under the truck. Next, Peyton got into the dirty cab and steered as the rest of the boys pushed the truck from the barn. The boys took turns thoroughly power washing it getting every nook and cranny from top to bottom and inside and out. The overspray, some of it quite intentional and always accompanied with a mischievous grin, kept us all cool and engaged in the project.

Peyton power washing

Parker power washing with a little help from Dad

'50 Chevy Pickup
Jeff, Verne, Patrick, Parker and Peyton

Afterwards, Peyton got into Verne’s ‘52 restored truck and Verne had him start it up. Everything is unexpected when it comes to Crazy Grandpa. (You don’t get that name for being cautious.) You’ve got to remember that Peyton is only 13 and probably has never sat behind the wheel of a car and started it. Sitting in that big truck and actually starting it up, hearing it rumble and roar, was quite the thrill. He timidly pressed the accelerator and then a little harder and the engine revved. He laughed. We all laughed. It was so cute. He later told me that he’s going to drive the ‘50 Chevy pickup to school when he gets his license. I don’t know if Parker or Patrick were enamored with the pickup, but I do know that Peyton will go home with visions of someday driving that old truck to school and being the coolest guy on campus. Driving a ‘50 Chevy pickup to high school in the year 2020 will certainly be unique.
Peyton driving with Patrick and Parker

I think our afternoon hanging out around the barn and working on the pickup was definitely a highlight for the kids. Of course, everything in life is relative, so I guess you’d need to know how we spent the rest of our time together to understand how the experience I’ve described above could be a highlight. All five McKenzies love coconut and when they lived in the area would often stop at Andrae’s Bakery in Amador City for macaroons. We headed for Amador City Friday morning hoping we wouldn’t be disappointed and that Matt Andrae would have macaroons for sale. We made two stops on the way. Our first stop was to visit my MFP buddy who is a master jerky maker. Jeff and Peyton have talked about making jerky for almost two years now and have yet to muster the courage to take out Peyton’s dehydrator (one of the more creative birthday gifts we’ve given to a grandchild) and make beef jerky. I haven’t made jerky before (don’t like the stuff) so I arranged the meeting with Dennis as he is an authority on the subject and loves to teach others. He was ready for us with samples to taste, a handout detailing the steps to making jerky and important considerations, and his favorite recipe. Just the kind of encouragement the boys needed to go home and make jerky. We next stopped by our friend Otti’s home to pick figs for our crostini-fig-blue cheese appetizer planned for that evening. That was another fun experience (at least to my way of thinking). We finally made it to Amador City and bought a bag of macaroons. Andrae’s has changed some over the last ten years, but their macaroons are as good as ever. Since we were out running around, I suggested we show them the #4 tailing wheel off of Jackson Gate Road that has been semi-restored and preserved in a beautiful glass building for viewing. We opted to not give them the full tour, which includes the Kennedy Mine, as our last experience taking kids on that tour was met with marginal enthusiasm. It’s hard to compete with places like Disneyland and Harry Potter World. Everyone seemed to enjoy seeing the tailing wheel though. We took a few pictures and were back in the van and on our way home.  The kids were great on our road trip around town. Never any indication they were bored. Never a complaint. No sign of electronics. Total engagement in what we were doing. That’s a miracle. That just about covers our morning that preceded the afternoon’s adventure, the highlight of our time together, working on the ‘50 Chevy pickup.

Jeff and family left the following morning for SoCal to spend a week with Trish’s parents. According to Jeff, the boys had a great time “at the Farm” and said, “Why don’t we come more often?” Success!

A few more pictures...
Crazy ride on a kiddie train in Folsom

Patrick eating a very cheesy sandwich at the Union in Volcano

Peyton and Grammy making sausage...he's almost as tall as me! When did that happen?

Parker collecting the afternoon's eggs...Di-sgusting!